Hi, I’m Victor Dull, relationship coach. After being a successful mental health/substance abuse counselor for 20 years, I ended up resigning my position to work for myself
Over the years I kept hearing people cry out that they don't feel worthy, they don't feel loved.
I asked myself, "How do I help these people to reconnect their sense of worth, with their desire to be loved?"
I started this journey at an early age - as a middle school youth in Alaska. I often found myself being the mediator for my friends who were having disagreements. Most of fights were attempts to maintain dignity and about whose value was higher. In high school, not only did I continue doing this, but I was even listening to the problems of adults.
To help people to release their emotional traumas faster I learned new methods and techniques including Faster Emotionally Focused Transformation (FasterEFT). I tried it with my clients and it resonated with them with relieving results. Many of my clients learned this tapping technique and it was obvious that they were going to use it for the rest of their lives to help them overcome possible emotional insecurities.
Law Of Attraction
Then came Abraham Hicks’ teachings, which led to my clarity, connecting all the dots. The idea that we're all born worthy and free, something we seem to forget over time, was the answer to my life time search. I realized that people can rediscover their worth with awakened consciousness. It gave me hope - to teach people how they can create their lives with thoughts of their worth and value.
In Search Of Uplifting Tools
When I taught the people how thoughts create things I pointed out the connections between their thoughts, their feelings and their circumstances. I coached them on how to have better feeling thoughts, how to pay attention to their thoughts by paying attention to their feelings. To help them to continue using this knowledge, I co-created the FeelGoood app, which has many topics that offer sets of carefully selected better feeling thoughts, and it allows a person to edit the words on the cards or even add their own cards. The app is free and available for mobile phones and computer browsers.
While working in the juvenile justice system, I kept looking for a better way to help adolescents and their parents. The FeelGoood App was helpful but it didn’t provide solutions to everything. I was thinking of some sort of general scheme or “cheat sheet” that would help anyone to come up with better feeling thoughts. I ended up co-creating the FeelGoood Generator, the tool I use today. It is a document that contains prompts to lead you up the emotional scale. It can be used to help you in any situation when you need guidance to find better feeling thoughts.
Currently I help people of all ages to increase their sense of worth, to regain their emotional footing so they not only get on with their lives, but reach their highest potential, reach their goals. I help them to improve their relationships whether it be on a personal level or in the professional arena through my FeelGoood mentorship. My clients express a sense of freedom from old limiting beliefs; they reconcile with family members, with whom they had a strained relationship for a long time; and they get promoted at jobs, which they previously hated.
In the meantime when I’m looking for my alignment I read who-dunnit fiction, play with my dog Simba and my cat Derrick and discuss the teachings of Abraham Hicks. I also enjoy pastel painting animal portraits and landscapes and charcoal portraits of people. As a result of my alignment I wrote two little books I Don't Mean to Sound Preachy and Musings From the Tundra. This is what I’ve learned about human worth: the happier you are, the closer you are to who you really are - brilliant, worthy, and unique.