Victor’s Advice

Victor Dull writes about ways of changing limiting beliefs to set yourself free. The goal is to feel good about yourself by having better feeling thoughts.

Motivate Yourself With FUN

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I often hear my mentees complain about feeling stuck, lazy and lacking motivation to work on their dreams. This happens when people try too hard to reach their goals. They unwillingly overwhelm themselves and need to reinstall hopefulness. I offer them this FUN way to release emotional resistance. Focused Upliftment Now. ~~~~~ ~I feel stuck, […]

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Love Hurts!

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Suzie (not her real name) called me on Skype and cried, “Love hurts!” “What happened?” “He’s broken up with me!” I knew Suzie needed another mental adjustment; I’d been working with her for a couple of days. I said to her, “You say love hurts, but it doesn’t. Love often gets a bad rap and […]

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Uplifting Mental Adjustment: Self-Love

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A client (23), shared with me her thoughts; “I don’t love myself” was the dominant theme. I explained to her that she feels bad, not because of the thought, but because her heart strongly disagrees with the thought. She couldn’t believe that deep inside she actually loved herself. I offered her this mental adjustment to […]

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“That B***h Is Trying to Steal My Boyfriend” Part 1

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In my practice as a relationship mentor I hear some women complain, “That b***h is trying to steal my boyfriend.” Without being long winded, I offer a brief example of what to do in this case. Take at least 15 minutes and reflect on YOUR thoughts, YOUR feelings. Accept that you cannot control others, triggering […]

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We Are Just Too Different

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There are many reasons why people break up in a personal relationship. One of them is when people think they are “just too different.” She wants one thing, he wants another, she thinks one way, he thinks another. But have you seen couples who are absolutely the same? The problem is that when one person […]

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Feeling Worn Down

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Many people work hard to reach their desires, doing many processes and spiritual exercises, and in the end they tell me, “I’m feeling worn down.” It seems as if nothing helps them to reach what they want, because they’ve tried so hard that they wore themselves down and exhausted themselves. In this case, Abraham would […]

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Going Forward Bothers Me!

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A friend of mine was nervous to undertake a positive move in his life. He said, “Going forward bothers me.” Some people aren’t happy being stuck in their emotional problem, but they aren’t happy to move forward. So they choose to stay in their comfort zone, even though it isn’t comfortable at all. Just moving […]

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I Don’t Know My Purpose!

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A teenager told me, “I don’t know my purpose.” This young man thinks that the purpose of life should be some grandiose goal – like saving people’s lives, or developing a miracle drug, or building cities, etc. Even though it’s great to know your purpose from an early age, it’s really not that important as […]

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Maybe I’m Still Mourning?

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One of my clients recently broke up with her partner. She complained that she feels hurt and asked, “Maybe I’m still mourning?” I offered to walk her through an emotional uplifting process: “I’m still mourning my loss. It hurts because any loss hurts. Because I consider this as a loss and I attach this hurt […]

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I Just Feel Alone

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When I read Facebook posts I often see people complain that they feel alone, even if they’re in relationship. How can this be? First I want to clarify; what these people mean is that they’re lonely, not alone. And so, even if they’re with someone, they still feel lonely – not understood, not heard. It’s […]

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