Victor’s Advice

Victor Dull writes about ways of changing limiting beliefs to set yourself free. The goal is to feel good about yourself by having better feeling thoughts.

Doubt! Gotta love it!

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Doubt! Gotta love it! Yesterday I took the train up to Seattle from Salem OR to visit my niece who is in the hospital. I got lost going to the train station in Salem. Without hesitation, I stopped to ask directions. Turns out the station was just a block away. The train ride was pleasant […]

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Is it possible to go from resentful to love?

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There are days when we are triggered by a significant one. The trigger could be something trivial and we still blow it out of proportion because we’re hurt. Or our perception is that it’s something major, something substantial. We believe that we’ve wronged in a major way and we feel resentful. Instead of attacking the […]

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New Year’s Resolutions Suck!

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What are new year’s resolutions? Promises we make to ourselves and after a week or two into the new year, drop like the proverbial hot potato. I used to make new year resolutions and like many people, gave up on them in a short time. That led me to wonder, “What am I missing? Am […]

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Allow yourself to un-Grinch

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We all, at one time or another, harbored the Grinch in us. All those old beliefs that turned our hearts two sizes too small after contrast in the past. Past contrasts that caused misperceptions resulting in our hearts shrinking. Talk about being misaligned. But it doesn’t have to be that way as the Grinch learned. […]

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HELP! I’ve been emotionally hijacked!!

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People complain about the inability to reframe the negative emotions caused by life’s hurts. This is a complaint I often hear in my coaching practice. For the people doing the complaining, they feel as though their brain has been hijacked by negative thoughts and the corresponding emotions triggered by events in their lives. They are […]

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Contrast a Benefit?

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  Would it not be nice to not worry about contrast? Actually there is no need to worry about contrast. None whatsoever. No need to be afraid, no need to freak out about it. Why? Because all is well. Believe it or not, contrast has many benefits. Abraham says that contrast provides variety, and variety […]

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It Doesn’t Have to be Positive?

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Most people mistakenly think that a better feeling thought, or good feeling thought, MUST be a positive thought. Abraham doesn’t recommend that you put on a happy face when the happy feeling doesn’t resonate with you. When you aren’t happy, don’t pretend to be positive. But then you say, this is a dilemma. On the […]

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3D Formula Of Successful Manifestation

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How many of you experience contrasting/negative experiences? What a stupid question! We all have contrasts. How many of you become determined to do something about your life, your emotional/vibrational work? A lot of you. When contrast hits hard, you make the decision to do something about it. You’re determined. And your life improves. But not […]

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Put On Your Dancing Shoes!

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I woke up at 4.30 AM this morning with a message from Abraham. (I fell asleep listening to Abraham on YouTube). The message was to just chill and do something that makes me feel good, that lifts my vibe. My response was to get up, make coffee and read by the light of the Christmas […]

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Approaching the New Year Stuck in an Emotional Ditch?

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A statistic from research out of the University of Scranton says only 8% of people actually achieve their New Year goals. This statistic blows my mind. It means that 92% allow themselves to betray their dreams! Does it mean that people DON’T want to reach their aspirations? No, most likely they just don’t HAVE the […]

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