Victor’s Advice

Victor Dull writes about ways of changing limiting beliefs to set yourself free. The goal is to feel good about yourself by having better feeling thoughts.

I Feel Very Uncomfortable Talking to Men

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I often hear women say, “I feel very uncomfortable talking to men.” When I ask them, “What are you doing about that?” They usually respond, “I work on my communication, presentation, and public speaking skills.” And I imagine how many people work hard on their communication skills! I see so many people making efforts to […]

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In Search of a Soulmate

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Looking for a soulmate… How often we hear this phrase! This is probably the most expressed desire of all time. And yet, there is a fallacy that we learned to believe – that the desired soulmate is someone who comes to us to love and make us happy. He/she must come or we must find […]

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I Allow His Verbal Crap

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Sometimes we’re so smart, telling friends how to help themselves to be free and powerful. But when it comes to our significant others, we find ourselves with the thought “I allow his verbal crap to hurt me.” The first question that comes to mind – Why? But this isn’t the best question to ask. When […]

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Overcoming a Physically Abuse Marriage

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I knew one woman who was involved in a physically abusive first marriage. After one particularly life-threatening experience she divorced her first husband. After therapy she  found a seemingly good guy, who treated her well before they married, but before too long the honeymoon was over and he was verbally and physically abusing her. What’s […]

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The Secret of Feeling Loved, Valued, Worthy

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In my practice many people complain that they struggle with feeling loved, valued and worthy. What is the secret of those important concepts: loved, valued, and worthy? The secret of secrets is in these concepts. When we were born we all KNEW them. We knew we were loved. We knew we were valued. We knew […]

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Going Through an Ugly Divorce

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A client (47) was going through an ugly divorce. She asked me to help her to overcome her suffering. What could I offer in return? Compassion? Words of wisdom? Prayers? I decided that the best thing I could do is to offer her an uplifting self-persuading process, that I teach my clients to create for […]

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I Don’t Feel Secure, Now What?

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When I don’t feel secure I feel awful. The more  insecure I feel the worse it gets. This feeling paralyzes me like a snake bite and I tremble with horror that something bad is going to happen to me. This affected my relationships so badly for years,  and one day I got fed up with […]

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A Lesson From Babies

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A client (38), once complained to me that she had an awkward feeling of losing her sense of acceptance and peace and this negatively affected her personal relationships. Where does this sense of losing oneself come from? We’re born with a total sense of acceptance, peace and feeling loved. Look at newborn babies, how SURE […]

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Why Do You Need A FeelGoood Mentor?

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IMAGINE, you’re feeling sad or angry or powerless, and, with just your fingertips, help is available. It’s that easy to  get your power back and feel worthy again! And all this after FeelGoood mentoring is completed. You’re armed with knowledge and practical tools that you will use for the rest of your life. I bring […]

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How to find better feeling thoughts using the FeelGoood Generator

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Abraham Hicks teaches folks to find better feeling thoughts. The ability to find better feeling thoughts is the most useful skill in the journey of emotional upliftment. While analysing their scripts I noticed some common things that may help people become oriented in the sea of emotions. I put them together into a matrix where […]

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